Why we engage with perpetrators

"If we want to work with families, we cannot just work with women and children. We need to be able to work with men — from all types of families, especially poor and historically oppressed communities. We need to approach fathers with high expectations, and the willingness to learn new approaches and practices. Understanding male parental development and how men’s choices and behaviors impact child and family functioning is critical." Safe and Together

Please use the resources below to support your work with fathers who use violence in their families


Safe & Together Resources

These resources are exclusively available on the Safe and Together Academy to Practitioners who have completed Safe & Together CORE Training. Should you experience any tech issues, please contact the team.

  • Perpetrator Mapping Tool (fillable form)
  • Perpetrator Case Planning Grid
  • Case Planning with Domestic Violence Perpetrators in Children’s Services Cases
  • Important Sources of Information for The Assessment of Perpetrator Patterns
  • Investigation Relationship Interview Protocol
  • Case Planning with Domestic Violence Perpetrators in Children’s Services Cases
  • Intersections Chart
  • Domestic Violence Informed Continuum of Practice
  • Coming soon: The Web-Based Perpetrator Pattern Mapping Tool. Find Out More.

NEW!!! Motivational Sessions for fathers harming intimate partners through violence and abuse who are not acknowledging their behaviour 

This resource has been designed to support front-line practitioners in their work with domestic abuse in the context of child safeguarding. The activities are designed to support practitioners when they are faced with denial by the person perpetrating the violence and abuse

  • Motivational Sessions: Practice Guide
  • Motivational Session #1 - Getting to know you
  • Motivational Session #2 - What is abuse?
  • Motivational Session #3 - Impact on children
  • Motivational Session #4 - Moving forward

Download below

Motivational Sessions: Practice Guide
Motivational Session #1 - Getting to know you
Motivational Session #2 - What is abuse?
Motivational Session #3 - Impact on children
Motivational Session #4 - Moving forward


Resources for Service Users


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